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Private Coaching
Most parents already know more about how they want to parent than they're able to access when it matters.
You may understand your patterns. You may know where they came from. You may have read the books, listened to the podcasts, been to therapy and worked hard on yourself.
But when you're tired, overwhelmed or triggered, the same reactions can still take over.
Private coaching gives you focused, personalised support to understand what is driving you, build greater internal capacity and create meaningful change in your parenting, your relationships and your life.
For the past two years, I haven't taken on new private coaching clients.
My private practice had been full, and when I began the final push to finish F*ck Up Your Kids with Grace & Humour, I made the decision to clear my coaching calendar and give the book the space it needed.
The book is now out in the world.
It became an international #1 bestseller.
The Resourced Parenting Method™ has taken shape beyond its pages.
And now, I'm opening a small number of spaces for people who want to work with me privately again.
This is not a prescribed parenting programme or a cookie-cutter coaching process.
It is high-touch, future-focused private coaching built around you, what is happening in your life and the change you want to create.
You understand a lot about yourself but still repeat the same reactions under pressure.
You're tired of knowing better but not consistently being able to do better.
You can see that what is happening with your children is connected to something deeper.
You've tried strategies, tools, books, podcasts or therapy, but something still isn't shifting.
You want personalised support that responds to what is actually happening in your life.
You're ready to take responsibility without blaming or shaming yourself.
You're willing to look honestly at what is driving you and practise something different.
Our work begins by mapping three things.
The experiences, relationships, conditioning and patterns that have shaped the way you parent, relate, respond, lead and make decisions.
What is actually happening in your parenting, relationships, work and life, including the places where you feel stuck or keep repeating patterns you already understand.
How you want to parent, relate, lead and live differently from here.
That becomes the map for our work together.
Because knowing what you want to do differently is never the whole problem.
Knowing is one thing.
Being able to access a different response when it actually matters is another.
The deeper work is understanding what keeps taking over, and building the capacity for something different to become available.
Private coaching is shaped around you, your circumstances and the change you want to create. Our work may include:
Understanding the patterns underneath your reactions
Recognising what happens inside you when you're under pressure
Developing the capacity to pause and choose a different response
Strengthening your relationship with yourself
Creating greater connection within your family
Leading with greater clarity, responsibility and self-trust
Applying the Resourced Parenting Method™ to your individual circumstances
Repairing after the moments that haven't gone the way you wanted
Creating change that can be accessed in real life, not just understood intellectually
Awareness helps you see what's driving you.
Capacity gives you the ability to choose what happens next.
Your coaching is tailored to what you need rather than following a fixed curriculum. Depending on what we are working with, your private engagement may include:
A deep-dive mapping session at the beginning of our work
Regular private coaching sessions with me
WhatsApp and voice-note coaching between sessions
Support with real-time situations, decisions, patterns and relationship dynamics
Relevant tools, practices and training from the Resourced Parenting Method™ and my wider body of work
Ongoing review of what is shifting, what is still getting in the way and where we go next
The point is not to give you more information for the sake of it.
It is to give you the support, insight, practice and accountability you need to make something different available in real life.
Looking for private support alongside a group experience?
Private coaching may also be added to Capacity Lab, my six-month flagship programme for parents ready to close the gap between knowing better and being able to do better.
The initial private coaching engagement is three months.
That gives us enough time to go beyond insight, understand what is driving the patterns you want to change and begin creating meaningful change.
At the end of the three months, we decide together whether the work is complete for now or whether you would like to continue month-to-month.
There is no unnecessary long-term contract.
You stay because the work is shifting something.
Website Launch Offer
To celebrate the launch of the new website and the reopening of my private coaching books, I'm offering a limited number of three-month private coaching engagements at an introductory investment of
USD $2,997 for three months
This is a special website-launch investment and will not remain at this level.
Private coaching places are intentionally limited.
Complete the short application below and tell me what is happening, what you would like to change and what kind of support you are looking for.
I will review your application. If it looks like I'm the right person to support you, you'll receive a private link to book a 30-minute Capacity Call.
We'll use the call to explore what is happening, what support you may need and whether working together is the right next step. If it feels right for both of us, we'll talk through what your private coaching engagement would look like.
Private coaching is a personalised, high-level engagement. Please complete the application below so I can understand what is happening, what support you are looking for and whether I may be the right person to help.