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Getting Kids to Listen

A free training on what is actually happening when your child stops listening, and what to do instead of raising your voice.

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Seven Sharp, TVNZ · 13 July 2026

School holiday stress: it's not your kids, it's you

Why the school holidays feel so hard, and where the pressure is really coming from.

Karen Tui Boyes

How to Empower Your Kids Through Choice

How giving children real choices builds responsibility without shame.

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