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Free Live Series · 19 October to 2 November 2026
Don't just know it. Apply it.
A free six-part live series for parents who know how they want to parent, but can't always access it when the shit hits the fan.
These workshops will help you understand what's driving your reactions, interrupt the patterns underneath them, and begin building the capacity to choose differently when parenting gets hard.
Awareness helps you see what's driving you.
Capacity gives you the ability to choose what happens next.
Six live sessions. 60 minutes each. 11am NZ and 9am Sydney. In the US and Canada, 3pm Pacific and 6pm Eastern the day before. Replays included.
Most parents already know more about how they want to parent than they're able to access when it matters.
You don't necessarily need another parenting strategy, script or list of things you should be doing. You need to understand what is driving you underneath your reactions, and begin building the capacity to choose differently when the pressure is on.
The idea
Your kid isn't the problem. What's driving you is.
The distinction
Awareness isn't the same as capacity.
The work
Awareness helps you see what's driving you. Capacity gives you the ability to choose what happens next.
Who these workshops are for
- Parents who know how they want to parent but can't always access it when the pressure is on.
- Parents who want to understand what is driving their reactions, not simply manage their child's behaviour.
- Parents who are open to honest reflection, practical insight and doing things differently.
- Parents who want greater connection, clarity and leadership within their families.
Who these workshops are not for
- Parents looking for a formula that guarantees perfectly behaved children.
- Parents wanting quick fixes without self-reflection.
- Parents looking for another list of parenting rules or scripts.
- Parents who believe the child is the one who needs to change.
The six sessions.
19 October to 2 November 2026. 11am NZ time, 60 minutes each. In Australia: 9am Sydney and Melbourne, 8am Brisbane. In the US and Canada, each session is the day before: 3pm Pacific, 6pm Eastern (2pm and 5pm for the last one, after US clocks change). Monday 26 October is Labour Day and is skipped, so the series runs into November. Join live when you can, catch the replays when you can't.
Monday 19 October
1. You're Parenting from the Past
And your kids are paying for it.
Most parents think they're reacting to their child, but they're actually reacting to unresolved history. This workshop exposes the patterns shaping parenting reactions so parents can stop handing the past to the next generation.
Wednesday 21 October
2. The Addiction to Being Needed
Why rescuing feels like love, and isn't.
Over-helping and over-functioning don't create resilient kids, they create dependency. This session exposes the hidden codependent dynamics in parenting and shows how stepping out of rescuing allows children to develop real capability and confidence.
Friday 23 October
3. Stop Giving Your Power Away
Victim parenting and the illusion of control.
When parents feel powerless, they try to control everything around them. This workshop reveals how blame, projection and martyrdom shape parenting, and how reclaiming ownership restores clarity, authority and leadership.
Wednesday 28 October
4. The Addiction to Control
Nothing is broken. Not them. Not you.
Children are being labelled long before they're understood. This session challenges the pathology narrative and shows parents how changing the meaning they assign to behaviour transforms the way they respond to their children.
Friday 30 October
5. Don't Lose Yourself Raising Them
End the self-abandonment.
Many parents slowly disappear inside the role of parenting while trying to resolve deeper beliefs about worth and being good enough. This workshop reconnects parents to their wholeness so they can lead from creativity, clarity and grounded authority instead of guilt and self-sacrifice.
Monday 2 November
6. Raise Them in Possibility, Not Fear
The revolution starts in your living room.
Most parents are focused on what they don't want. This final workshop shifts parents from fear-based problem management into deliberate creation, helping them parent from vision instead of reaction.
What's included.
All six live sessions
One registration puts you in for the whole series. 60 minutes each, 11am NZ time (3pm Pacific the day before in the US and Canada).
Replays
Join live when you can. Watch the replay when you can't.
One connected journey
The six sessions build on each other. They are not six separate talks.
Free
The complete series costs nothing. Register once and you're in.
The workshops are designed to create recognition, relevance and practical wins. They will help you recognise the patterns driving your parenting, understand why knowing better does not always mean being able to do better, and see why awareness alone is not enough. Capacity Lab is where the deeper experiential work and sustained change happen. Explore Capacity Lab.
Feedback from previous live workshops and programmes facilitated by Jacqlin.
Real people. Real conversations. Real shifts.
Real people.
Real conversations.
Real shifts.
These workshops are designed to create awareness in the moments that matter most, not just while you’re watching.
Get the book before we begin.
The book gives you the broader framework. Reading it before the workshops will help you recognise how the ideas apply to your own parenting and get more from each live session.
Buy your copy now and you'll automatically be registered for all six free live sessions.
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Questions.
How much does it cost?
Nothing. The complete six-part live series is free.
How long is each session?
60 minutes, at 11am NZ time. That is 9am in Sydney. In the US and Canada it is the day before, at 3pm Pacific or 6pm Eastern.
Do I have to register for each one?
No. Register once and you're in for all six.
What if I can't make one live?
Replays are included, so you can catch up in your own time.
I've bought the book. Am I already in?
Yes. Buying the book automatically registers you for all six sessions.
Do I need the book to attend?
No. You can register for the workshops without buying the book. Reading it first will help you get more from each session.
Who are these workshops for?
These workshops are for parents who already know a lot about how they want to parent but cannot always access that knowledge when they're stressed, triggered or under pressure.
They're for parents willing to look beneath their reactions, recognise the patterns driving them and begin building the capacity to choose differently.
What happens after the six sessions?
Capacity Lab is the six-month programme where the deeper work happens. It starts Tuesday 17 November 2026. You'll hear about it through the series, with the full invitation in Session Six. Explore Capacity Lab.
Register for the workshops.
The workshops are free. Register once and you're in for all six, replays included.